The Other in the others

In all the ways we love, we express One love, and we love as One.

But let us say we have found our wholeness in God, what then is our relationship with others? Since what we see and love in others is only what we see and love in ourselves, it follows that having found God within, we can now love others as we love ourselves—love in them the same Other we love in ourselves. — Bernadette Roberts, The Experience of No-Self